Friday, November 9, 2012

Why I don't use "fuck"

So I saw this on Facebook, and thought it was a nice poster! As a disclaimer, among most people whom I don't care that much about, or have more important issues I care about, I ignore its usage.




So why don't I use vulgar words?
1. Well one of the reasons is that it shows the limitations of the user's vocabulary. And changes the original meaning of the word.
2. But more importantly, it doesn't say much / or communicate what's happening. Using more expressive words, like 'owwww' or this is gone! or this is terrible! or someone is something something. (I.e. saying what is wrong is probably more communicative.)
3. In addition as we communicate it better during a bad time, we are more likely to process the situation better, and hence respond rather than merely react to the situation. (i.e. combine your smart brain with your emotions!)
4. It is rude. It shows the level of respect you have for the other party.

Note:
It is arguable that it creates some sense of camaraderie among people who use the same word as often. However, it also encourages this habit reacting without thinking to persist. 

Other notes:
Click on picture for source of poster.